[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.sempol.sk\/zenam-dnes-chyba-viac-sebalasky\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.sempol.sk\/zenam-dnes-chyba-viac-sebalasky\/","headline":"\u017den\u00e1m dnes ch\u00fdba viac sebal\u00e1sky","name":"\u017den\u00e1m dnes ch\u00fdba viac sebal\u00e1sky","description":"Vz\u0165ahy k ostatn\u00fdm v\u00a0na\u0161om okol\u00ed sa formuj\u00fa aj v\u010faka tomu, ako m\u00e1me rady samy seba. Na z\u00e1klade toho si aj in\u00ed \u013eudia k\u00a0n\u00e1m si dovolia z\u00e1js\u0165 len po hranicu, ktor\u00fa im my ur\u010d\u00edme. Odborn\u00edci tvrdia, \u017ee aj nedostatok l\u00e1sky v\u00a0detstve, ktor\u00fdm sme trpeli, kvalitn\u00fd partnersk\u00fd vz\u0165ah dok\u00e1\u017ee prekona\u0165. \u00a0Ma\u0165 sa rada nie je hriech \u017deny […]","datePublished":"2020-02-20","dateModified":"2020-02-20","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.sempol.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.sempol.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f7320ca526354d2794ceb75173050bfa147af8617816df401a16569341b5fbaf?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f7320ca526354d2794ceb75173050bfa147af8617816df401a16569341b5fbaf?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"sempol.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.sempol.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a310432_w16576_t1582740380.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.sempol.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a310432_w16576_t1582740380.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.sempol.sk\/zenam-dnes-chyba-viac-sebalasky\/","about":["\u017deny"],"wordCount":490,"articleBody":"Vz\u0165ahy k ostatn\u00fdm v\u00a0na\u0161om okol\u00ed sa formuj\u00fa aj v\u010faka tomu, ako m\u00e1me rady samy seba. Na z\u00e1klade toho si aj in\u00ed \u013eudia k\u00a0n\u00e1m si dovolia z\u00e1js\u0165 len po hranicu, ktor\u00fa im my ur\u010d\u00edme. Odborn\u00edci tvrdia, \u017ee aj nedostatok l\u00e1sky v\u00a0detstve, ktor\u00fdm sme trpeli, kvalitn\u00fd partnersk\u00fd vz\u0165ah dok\u00e1\u017ee prekona\u0165.\u00a0Ma\u0165 sa rada nie je hriech\u017deny maj\u00fa tendenciu sa v\u00a0mnoh\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch stava\u0165 do polohy obete a\u00a0skr\u00fdva\u0165 sa za v\u00fdhovorky typu: \u201enie je to moja vina\u201c. Mnoh\u00e9 zo \u017eien sa cel\u00fd \u017eivot obetuj\u00fa, niektor\u00e9 pre mu\u017ea, in\u00e9 pre deti alebo pre rodi\u010dov. V\u0161etky udalosti, ktor\u00e9 ich postretn\u00fa, maj\u00fa na svedom\u00ed vonkaj\u0161ie okolnosti, vyvol\u00e1vaj\u00fa v\u00a0\u017eene strach a\u00a0ten ovplyv\u0148uje ka\u017ed\u00e9 jej rozhodnutie. Tie sa v\u0161ak postupom \u010dasu uk\u00e1\u017eu ako chybn\u00e9. Na v\u0161etky na\u0161e rozhodnutia v\u00a0\u017eivote m\u00e1 vplyv aj na\u0161a sebal\u00e1ska, vz\u0165ah k\u00a0samej sebe. Viete, ako sa ma\u0165 trocha viac rada? Nie je to ni\u010d nemor\u00e1lne, pr\u00e1ve naopak. Sebal\u00e1skou si formujeme aj postoje k\u00a0ostatn\u00fdm \u013eu\u010fom. Preva\u017ene je to pr\u00e1ve partnersk\u00fd vz\u0165ah, ktor\u00fd n\u00e1m pom\u00f4\u017ee preklen\u00fa\u0165 n\u00e1sledky nedostatku l\u00e1sky v\u00a0detstve, no ak ani to nesta\u010d\u00ed, rozhodneme sa h\u013eada\u0165 ju inde. Zdroje, ktor\u00fdch je ne\u00farekom, n\u00e1m ju m\u00f4\u017eu poskytn\u00fa, ale nikdy \u00faplne nenahradia t\u00fa rodi\u010dovsk\u00fa. A\u00a0tak p\u00e1trame, hlavne v\u00a0sebe. Je ve\u013emi d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 uvedomi\u0165 si svoju hodnotu, vz\u0165ah k\u00a0sebe samej a aj to, \u017ee sme hodn\u00e9 l\u00e1sky.\u00a0Nevyrie\u0161i to ani mu\u017eSpolu\u017eitie s\u00a0mu\u017eom m\u00f4\u017ee \u017eene v\u00a0tomto pom\u00f4c\u0165, ak ju bude milova\u0165 tak\u00fa ak\u00e1 je, ale st\u00e1le je tu to \u201eale\u201c. \u017dena to nem\u00e1 \u013eahk\u00e9, preto\u017ee ak ona nebude ma\u0165 rada sam\u00fa seba, tak to fungova\u0165 nebude. Ani miluj\u00faci man\u017eel to za \u0148u neurob\u00ed, je to len na \u017eene. Z\u00a0hist\u00f3rie m\u00e1me mnoho pr\u00edkladov, pre\u010do \u017een\u00e1m ch\u00fdba sebal\u00e1ska. Za\u010dalo to priemyselnou revol\u00faciou, ke\u010f mu\u017ei boli n\u00faten\u00ed chodi\u0165 za pr\u00e1cou a\u00a0\u017eeny ost\u00e1vali doma samy. Tento postoj k\u00a0sebe, \u010di u\u017e pozit\u00edvny alebo negat\u00edvny, odovzd\u00e1vali aj svojim dc\u00e9ram a\u00a0\u010dasom pre\u0161iel neskuto\u010dn\u00fdm v\u00fdvojom. Pred sto rokmi bolo d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 nie\u010do in\u00e9 ako dnes, no aj dobr\u00e9 m\u00f4\u017ee so sebou prinies\u0165 zlo.\u00a0Doprajte siUrobi\u0165 nie\u010do len pre svoje pote\u0161enie je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9, vyjs\u0165 zo zau\u017e\u00edvan\u00fdch ko\u013eaj\u00ed. Ak neslad\u00edte, tak si dajte kocku cukru do k\u00e1vy alebo sa zap\u00ed\u0161te na jeden z kurzov. A\u00a0nebojte sa dopria\u0165 si nejak\u00e9 mali\u010dkosti \u010dastej\u0161ie, len tak sa budete c\u00edti\u0165 \u0161\u0165astnej\u0161ia a\u00a0spokojnej\u0161ia.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.5\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"\u017den\u00e1m dnes ch\u00fdba viac sebal\u00e1sky","item":"https:\/\/www.sempol.sk\/zenam-dnes-chyba-viac-sebalasky\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]